The more and more I work with students, I have come to learn that the age old phrase "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me" cannot be further from the truth. It seems that this was a ploy used back in the day to basically say, man up and don't let what people say bother you. But in all honesty, words are the things that I believe, cut the deepest to any person. I had one of those rude awakening moments today about just how important words are, especially to young students/children. In the Kindergarten PE class there is a little boy who is considerably smaller than the other children in his class. Because he is so small he's one of those boys that you just fall in love with and love seeing him laugh and smile. Today he came to PE with a huge pink ring around his eye. He came up to me towards the end of the class and swiped his hands across his face and then preceeded to grab my hand to sort of hang on me. In my reaction, I mentioned to say "ah, don't touch me with that hand". To his utter surprise he didn't know what else to do but run away sobbing. Immediately I caught up to him and apologized for my remarks and tried to do my best to encourage this little boy. But man o man, I praise God for those moments because it is in those times that I am slammed by my own faults and my desperate need for God's grace.
During the past couple of days I have been really keenly interested in the Don Imus controversy about his remarks regarding the Rutgers girls basketball team. I totally agree that his remarks were way out of line and very uncalled for but I am simply struck by the double standard in the media in how they report it and who they choose to speak on the issue. People like Al Sharpton and Jesse Jackson make a living on issues like this and they always seem to cause way more trouble and division than is good for America. No wonder there is so much division amongst black and white perspectives and ideologies. If you get a chance check out the Hannity & Colmes video piece from April 10 on foxnews.com about the Imus controversy. They have some really good points from some guests on their show. I'll let you check it out though.
Of course, it's always okay and nobody makes fuss over 50 cent, and Snoop Dogg calling black women the same thing in their lyrics. It just doesn't make sense and it never will because this world is a fallen place and we are in desperate need of transformation into the image of Jesus. Funny, because we are called to that (Ephesians 5:1-2).